Rumer's Story, part 16

Appointments again

Sunday 28th to Monday 29th June 2015
26 weeks pregnant

So on Sunday the 28th June, we met Chris's parents for lunch in Woodlands in Marylebone, a vegetarian Indian restaurant we'd frequented a number of times. We showed them the latest scan pictures and told them Rumer's name. I'd anticipated that most people would, at best, take time to get used to her name - after all, it was hardly in the top 100 - but everyone immediately proclaimed to love it. I still have no idea if they meant it or not. My parents, whom we'd told on the phone, also claimed they liked it.

Rumer's Story, part 14

Getting organised!

Tuesday 23rd to Wednesday 24th June 2015
25 weeks pregnant

So we arrived back from Berlin with motivation and a better sense of how to move forward: making a stillbirth plan had clarified some of the things we needed to get on with. Our 'to do' list went:

1. Practical arrangements for a home stillbirth
2. Buy clothes and things for the baby
3. Contact photography charities regarding photographs of the baby
4. Discuss what family would want in the event of a stillbirth
5. Explore the practicalities and legalities of home burial
6. Look for a doula
7. Prepare a birth bag