Rumer's Story, part 7

Considering amnio

Tuesday 26th May to Wednesday 3rd June 2015
21 to 22 weeks pregnant

So there we were, with bad news piled on top of us. I said at the time to my mother: "A baby with problems with its heart, lungs and brain - that can't be good." I'm not sure what our families thought; they had mixed reactions. I think some thought we should or would be ending the pregnancy. I don't know about the rest.

Rumer's Story, part 5

MRI scan and echocardiogram

Friday 22nd to Tuesday 26th May 2015
21 weeks pregnant

We spent the weekend googling information on Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia (CDH) and calling family to update them. We were both worried and surprisingly normal. I remember reading all the survivors' stories on the CDH website and then braving reading the stories of the non-survivors and crying. It was a long bank holiday weekend.

Rumer's Story, part 4

Anomaly scan (continued)

Thursday 21st May 2015
21 weeks pregnant

15 minutes later, George Donnachie invited us back in. We had both expected to go back into the office in which we'd met previously, so we were both surprised to be shown into a scan room and for me to be pointed towards the bed. It was clear that Dr Donnachie wished to perform another scan. There were several other people in the room. I don't remember us being introduced to them; maybe we were, maybe we weren't.